Mbali ina ya ndalama

Sitimukonda bwana wathu watsopano! Ndiwouma mtima komanso wolamulira. Njira yake yoyendetsera ntchito ndiyokhumudwitsa kwambiri, makamaka chifukwa cha magwiridwe antchito omwe tidakhala nawo pansi pa oyang'anira akale. Kodi mungatani kuti muchitepo kanthu? Ndinalandira madandaulowa zaka zambiri zapitazo kuchokera kwa wogwira ntchito m'modzi mwa nthambi zathu yemwe ndimamuyang'anira nthawi yanga ngati manejala wa HR pakampani yopanga ndi kutsatsa. Chifukwa chake ndidaganiza zokwera ndege ndikuchezera nthambiyi ndikuyembekeza kuthetsa kusamvana pakati pa mtsogoleri watsopanoyo ndi omugwirira ntchito.

Chithunzi chosiyana kwambiri chidakumana ndikakumana ndi oyang'anira ndi ogwira ntchito. Chowonadi chinali chakuti njira ya mtsogoleriyo inali yatsopano kwambiri poyerekeza ndi yemwe adamtsogolera, koma sanali munthu wowopsa yemwe adafotokozedwa ndi omwe amagwira nawo ntchito. Komabe, adawonetsa nkhawa yayikulu pakukula kwa kampaniyo ndipo adakhumudwitsidwa ndi kuyankha koyipa atangofika kumene.

Kumbali inayi, ndimamvetsetsa zovuta zomwe antchito anali nazo. Adayesa kuzolowera njira yatsopano yolunjika, yomwe imawoneka yachilendo kwa iwo. Adatulutsa mwachangu mawonekedwe osasangalatsa, koma ogwira ntchito bwino komanso ogwira ntchito. Zonsezi zidachitika mwachangu kwambiri mwina mwansanga msanga. Pomwe mtsogoleri wakale anali omasuka pang'ono, zokolola zidavutika chifukwa cha njira zakale.

Mosakayikira, vutoli lidakhazikika mkati mwa miyezi ingapo. Ulemu ndikuyamikira abwana atsopanowa kumakula pang'onopang'ono ndipo zinali zolimbikitsa kuwona kuti magwiridwe antchito akuwonjezeka.

Mbali zonsezi zinali zowona

Nkhani imeneyi idandiphunzitsa phunziro lofunika kwambiri lokhudza anthu omwe ndi abale ndi anthu ena. Chodabwitsa pazomwe zitha kuphulika ndi izi: Maphwando onsewa anali olondola ndipo onse amayenera kuphunzira kuthana ndi zinthu zatsopano komanso mikhalidwe. Kuyandikira wina ndi mnzake ndi mzimu wa chiyanjanitso kunapanga kusiyana konse. Chizolowezi chopanga malingaliro okhudza anthu, mabanja, ndi magulu pakumva mbali imodzi ya nkhaniyi kapena kupatsidwa malingaliro otsimikizika kuchokera kwa munthu wina nthawi zambiri kumatha kubweretsa zovuta pamaubwenzi.

Miyambo 18,17 limatiuza kuti: Aliyense ali wolungama poyamba pa mlandu wake; koma ngati wina ali ndi mawu ake, adzapezedwa.

Katswiri wa zaumulungu Charles Bridges (1794-1869) adalemba za vesili mu ndemanga yake pa Miyambo: Apa tikuchenjezedwa kuti tisadzilungamitse kwa ena ... komanso kuti tiziwona zolakwa zathu. Kupyolera mwa izi timatha kuyika zolinga zathu mwakuya; ndipo nthawi zina, pafupifupi mosazindikira, kuti apange mthunzi pa zomwe zingabweretse malire mbali inayo, kapena ngakhale kuzisiya kwathunthu. Ndizovuta kutulutsa zowona komanso zochitika molondola pazokhudza dzina lathu kapena cholinga chathu. Cholinga chathu chitha kukhala choyambirira ndikuwoneka ngati cholondola, koma malinga ndi mwambi umangokhala wolondola mpaka mbali ina ya ndalama imveke.

Kuwonongeka kosasinthika

Chizolowezi chofuna kupeza mayankho pomva mbali yovuta kwambiri ya ndalamayo sichingakhale chosagonjetseka. Makamaka ngati ndi mnzanu kapena wina amene amagawana moyo mofanana ndi inu. Mayankho amtundu umodzi amtunduwu amatha kupanga mdima pamgwirizano. Mwachitsanzo, mumauza mnzanu wapamtima za wolamulira mwankhanza yemwe muli naye monga bwana wanu watsopano ndipo akukuyambitsani mavuto ambiri m'moyo wanu. Chizolowezi chofuna kusintha mabizinesi awo kuti awonekere bwino chidzakhala chachikulu kwambiri. Mnzanuyo apanga malingaliro olakwika okhudza abwana awo ndipo adzawamvera chisoni komanso zinthu zomwe akukumana nazo. Palinso ngozi ina: kuti adzagawana ndi ena chowonadi chake chomasuliridwa molakwika.

Kuthekera kwakuti chidziwitso chabodza chofalikira ngati moto wamtchire ndichowonadi ndipo kumatha kuwononga mbiri ndi chikhalidwe cha munthu aliyense kapena gulu la anthu. Tikukhala munthawi yomwe nkhani zamtundu uliwonse zimawululidwa kudzera mphekesera, kapena zoyipa kwambiri, zimapezeka kudzera pa intaneti kapena malo ochezera a pa Intaneti. Ikaperekedwa pagulu, mwatsoka imawonekera kwa aliyense ndipo siyingasinthidwenso pafupifupi.

Ma Puritans Achingelezi a m’zaka za m’ma 16 ndi 17 anafotokoza Miyambo 18,17 monga ziweruzo za chikondi ndipo anatsindika kufunikira kokhazikitsa chikhalidwe cha chisomo mu ubale. Kuchitapo kanthu ndi chikhumbo chowona mtima komanso modzichepetsa kuti mumvetsetse malingaliro onse pa mkangano ndikofunikira kwambiri pakumanganso ubale. Inde, pamafunika kulimba mtima! Koma mapindu a kulemekezana, kulimbikitsana, ndi machiritso olimbikitsa sanganenedwe mopambanitsa. Oyimira pakati ndi abusa odziwa zambiri amayesa kuchita chilichonse kuti abweretse magulu onse otsutsana pamodzi. Pochita zimenezi, iwo amapezerapo mwayi woti aliyense afotokoze zinthu zake pamaso pa mnzake.

Yakobo 1,19 Amatipatsa malangizo awa: “Abale anga okondedwa, muyenera kudziwa kuti aliyense akhale wofulumira kumva, wodekha polankhula, wosafulumira kukwiya.

M’nkhani yake, Pilo wa Chisomo, M’busa William Harrell wa mpingo wa Immanuel Presbyterian akutilimbikitsa kuzindikira ndi kulemekeza mtsamiro wa chisomo umene Mpulumutsi wathu amagwiritsa ntchito mu maubale onse. Uchimo umenewu umasokoneza maganizo athu ndi kuwononga zolinga zathu, moti sitingathe kuzindikira choonadi chonse m’mabwenzi athu. Chotero tikulangizidwa osati kokha kukhala owona mu maubale athu, komanso kukhala mu chikondi chenicheni (Aefeso. 4,15).

Chifukwa chake ndikofunikira kusamala tikamva kapena kuwerenga za zinthu zomwe ena akuwoneka kuti ndizoyipa. Tiyeni tiwone mbali zonse ziwiri za ndalamazo tili ndi udindo tisanapitirire pamaganizidwe. Pezani zenizeni ndipo, ngati zingatheke, khalani ndi nthawi yolankhula ndi aliyense amene akukhudzidwa.

Kufikira ena mu mphamvu ya chikondi ndi kumvetsera mwatcheru kuti amvetsetse mbali yawo ya ndalama ndiye gawo la chisomo chodabwitsa.    

ndi Bob Klynsmith


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