Migodi ya King Solomon part 22
"Simunandidzoze ndiye ndikuchoka kutchalitchi," adadandaula Jason ndi mawu owawa omwe sindinamvepo. “Ndachitira zambiri tchalitchi chino—kuphunzitsa maphunziro a Baibulo, kuyendera odwala, ndipo n’chifukwa chiyani pa dziko lapansi anachita zinthu zonse…anakhazikitsa? Maulaliki ake samveka bwino, sadziŵa zambiri za m’Baibulo, ndipo nayenso ndi wamwano!” Kukwiyira kwa Jason kunandidabwitsa, koma kunavumbula chinthu china chofunika kwambiri chimene chinali chowonekera —kunyada kwake.
Mtundu wa kunyada umene Mulungu amadana nawo (Spr 6,16-17), ndi kudziona mopitirira muyeso komanso kunyoza ena. Mu Sprüche 3,34Mfumu Solomoni inanena kuti Mulungu “amanyoza onyoza.” Mulungu amatsutsa anthu amene moyo wawo umawapangitsa kuti asamadalire thandizo la Mulungu mwadala. Tonsefe timavutika ndi kunyada, komwe nthawi zambiri kumakhala kobisika kwambiri moti sitidziwa zotsatira zake. “Koma,” Solomo akupitiriza, “adzachitira chifundo odzichepetsa.” Tili ndi chisankho. Tikhoza kulola maganizo ndi zochita zathu kutsogoleredwa ndi kunyada kapena kudzichepetsa. Kodi kudzichepetsa n’chiyani, ndipo chinsinsi chake n’chiyani? Kodi tingayambe bwanji? Kodi tingasankhe bwanji kudzichepetsa ndi kulandira kuchokera kwa Mulungu zonse zimene akufuna kutipatsa?
Steven K. Scott, yemwe ndi wamalonda ambiri komanso wolemba mabuku, anafotokoza nkhani ya munthu wina wamalonda amene ankalemba ntchito anthu masauzande ambiri. Ngakhale kuti anali ndi zonse zimene akanatha kugula ndi ndalama, iye anali wosasangalala, wokwiya, ndiponso wosachedwa kupsa mtima. Ogwira ntchito ake, ngakhale achibale ake, adamuwona kuti ndi wonyansa. Mkazi wake sanathenso kupirira khalidwe lake laukali ndipo anapempha abusa ake kuti alankhule naye. Pamene m’busayo ankamvetsera zimene munthuyo ankafotokoza zimene wakwanitsa kuchita, mwamsanga anazindikira kuti kunyada n’kumene kunali kulamulira mtima ndi maganizo a munthuyo. Ananena kuti anamanga kampani yake kuyambira pachiyambi. Akadagwira ntchito molimbika kuti apeze digiri yake ya koleji. Ankadzitama kuti anachita yekha zonse ndipo analibe ngongole kwa aliyense. Kenako m’busayo anamufunsa kuti, “Ndani wakusintha matewera? Ndani adakudyetsani ngati mwana? Ndani anakuphunzitsani kuwerenga ndi kulemba? Ndani adakupatsani ntchito zomwe zidakuthandizani kuti mumalize maphunziro anu? Ndani amakupatsirani chakudya ku canteen? Ndani amayeretsa zimbudzi m’gulu lanu?” Munthuyo anawerama mutu wake ndi manyazi. Mphindi zochepa pambuyo pake anavomereza misozi ili m’maso kuti: “Tsopano pamene ndilingalira za izo, ndimazindikira kuti sindinachite zonse ndekha. Popanda kukoma mtima ndi chichirikizo cha ena, mwina sindikanatha kuchita kalikonse. M’busayo anamufunsa kuti, “Kodi simukuganiza kuti akuyenera kuyamikiridwa pang’ono?
Mtima wa munthuyo wasintha, mwachionekere kuchokera tsiku lina kupita ku lina. M’miyezi yotsatira, iye analemba makalata oyamikira kwa aliyense wa antchito ake ndi kwa aliyense amene, monga momwe akanakumbukira, anathandizira pa moyo wake. Iye sanangomva kukhudzika kwakukulu kwa chiyamiko, koma anachitira aliyense womuzungulira mwaulemu ndi kuyamikira. M’chaka chimodzi anali atakhala munthu wina. Chimwemwe ndi mtendere zinali zitaloŵa m’malo mkwiyo ndi chipwirikiti mumtima mwake. Iye ankawoneka wamng'ono zaka. Antchito ake ankamukonda chifukwa ankawalemekeza komanso kuwalemekeza, ndipo zimenezi zinachititsa kuti ayambe kudzichepetsa kwambiri.
Zolengedwa za Mulungu: Nkhaniyi ikutisonyeza chinsinsi cha kudzichepetsa. Monga momwe wamalondayo anamvetsetsa kuti sakanatha kuchita chilichonse popanda thandizo la ena, ifenso tiyenera kumvetsetsa kuti kudzichepetsa kumayamba ndi kuzindikira kuti sitingathe kuchita chilichonse popanda Mulungu. Sitinali ndi ulamuliro pa kubwera kwathu, ndipo sitingathe kudzitamandira kapena kunena kuti tapanga chilichonse chabwino kudzera mu khama lathu. Ndife zolengedwa chifukwa cha Mulungu. Tinali ochimwa, koma Mulungu anatengapo gawo, anafika kwa ife, natidziwitsa chikondi chake chosaneneka. (1 Joh 4,19)Popanda Iye sitingathe kuchita kalikonse. Chomwe tingachite ndi kunena kuti, "Zikomo," ndikupumula mu choonadi monga oyitanidwa mwa Yesu Khristu—olandiridwa, okhululukidwa, ndi okondedwa mopanda malire.
Njira ina yoyezera ukulu: Tiyeni tidzifunse funso lakuti: "Ndingakhale bwanji wodzichepetsa?" Sprüche 3,34 Patatha zaka pafupifupi 1000 Solomo atalemba mawu ake anzeru, anali oona komanso ofunikira kwambiri moti atumwi Yohane ndi Petro anagwiritsa ntchito mawuwo m'ziphunzitso zawo. M'kalata yake, yomwe nthawi zambiri imakhudza kugonjera ndi kutumikira, Paulo analemba kuti: “Nonsenu valani kudzichepetsa” (1 Petr 5,5(Schlachter 2000). Ndi fanizo ili, Petro akugwiritsa ntchito chithunzi cha wantchito amene amamanga epuloni yapadera, motero kusonyeza kukonzeka kwake kutumikira. Petro anati: “Nonsenu mukhale okonzeka kutumikirana wina ndi mnzake modzichepetsa.” Mosakayikira, Petro anali kuganizira za Mgonero Womaliza, pamene Yesu anamanga epuloni ndi kusambitsa mapazi a ophunzira. (Joh 13,4-17)Mawu akuti “kudzimanga” omwe Yohane anagwiritsa ntchito ndi omwe Petro anagwiritsa ntchito. Yesu anatenga epuloni nadzipanga kukhala mtumiki wa onse. Anagwada pansi nawasambitsa mapazi awo. Pochita izi, anayambitsa moyo watsopano, komwe ukulu umayesedwa ndi kuchuluka kwa momwe timatumikira ena. Kunyada kumanyoza ena nati, “Nditumikireni!” Kudzichepetsa kumagwada pamaso pa ena nati, “Ndingakutumikireni bwanji?” Izi ndi zosiyana ndi zomwe zikuchitika padziko lapansi, kumene anthu akulimbikitsidwa kuchita zinthu molakwika, kuonekera, ndikudziika okha m’malo abwino. Timalambira Mulungu wodzichepetsa amene amagwada pamaso pa zolengedwa zake kuti azitumikire. Kodi sizodabwitsa zimenezo?
“Chitani monga ine ndakuchitirani inu” Kukhala wodzichepetsa sikutanthauza kuti timadziona ngati otsika kapena kukhala ndi maganizo otsika pa luso lathu ndi makhalidwe athu. Izi sizikutanthauza kudziwonetsa ngati wopanda pake komanso wopanda munthu. Pakuti kumeneko kukakhala kunyada koipitsidwa, wofunitsitsa kuyamikiridwa chifukwa cha kudzichepetsa kwake! Kudzichepetsa kulibe kanthu kochita ndi kudzitchinjiriza, kufuna kukhala ndi mawu omalizira, kapena kunyoza ena kusonyeza kuti ndi wapamwamba. Kunyada kumatikwiyitsa kotero kuti timadzimva kukhala osadalira Mulungu, kudziona kuti ndife ofunika kwambiri, ndi kum’nyalanyaza. Kudzichepetsa kumatichititsa kugonjera Mulungu ndi kuzindikira kuti timadalira iye kotheratu. Izi zikutanthauza kuti sitidziyang’ana tokha, koma titembenukire maganizo athu onse kwa Mulungu, amene amatikonda ndi kutiyang’ana bwino kuposa mmene tingathere.
Atasambitsa mapazi a ophunzira ake, Yesu anati: “Inde monga ine ndakuchitirani inu, chitani inu.” Iye sananene kuti njira yokhayo yotumikira ndiyo kusambitsa mapazi a ena, koma anawapatsa chitsanzo cha mmene angakhalire ndi moyo. Kudzichepetsa kumayang'ana mosalekeza komanso mwachidwi mipata yotumikira. Zimatithandiza kuvomereza chenicheni chakuti mwa chisomo cha Mulungu ndife ziwiya zake, onyamula ndi oimirira pa dziko lapansi. Mayi Teresa anali chitsanzo cha "kudzichepetsa muzochita." Iye ananena kuti ankaona nkhope ya Yesu pamaso pa aliyense amene anamuthandiza. Sitingatchulidwe kuti ndife Amayi Teresa wotsatira, koma tiyenera kusamala kwambiri ndi zosowa za omwe akutizungulira. Nthaŵi zonse tikamayesedwa kuti tidzione ngati ofunika kwambiri, ndi bwino kukumbukira mawu a Bishopu Wamkulu Helder Camara akuti: “Ndikaonekera pagulu ndipo gulu la anthu likundiomba m’manja ndi kundisangalatsa, ndimatembenukira kwa Khristu n’kungomuuza kuti: kulowa kwanu kopambana mu Yerusalemu! Ine ndine bulu wamng’ono amene wakwerapo.”
ndi Gordon Green