Mu kanema wawayilesi waku America "Hee Haw" (kuyambira 1969 mpaka 1992 ndi nyimbo zakudziko ndi zojambula) panali gawo loseketsa ndi "akazi anayi amiseche" akuimba nyimbo yaying'ono yomwe mawu ake amamveka motere: "Imvani, imvani .. . si ife amene timathamanga mozungulira kufalitsa mphekesera, chifukwa, chifukwa^ife si amene timakwera miseche, ndipo sitidzatero konse…sitidzabwerezanso, hee-haw ndi kukhala okonzeka, chifukwa mu kamphindi. Kodi ukudziwa zatsopano?" Zikumveka zosangalatsa eti? Pali mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya miseche. Ndipotu pali miseche, miseche, ngakhalenso miseche yonyansa.
Kodi pali miseche yabwino? Kwenikweni, miseche ili ndi matanthauzo angapo. Chimodzi mwa izo chikukhudzana ndi kusinthana kwachiphamaso kwa nkhani. Izi ndi kungosunga wina ndi mnzake mu loop. "Maria adapakanso tsitsi lake". "Hans ali ndi galimoto yatsopano". "Julia ali ndi mwana". Palibe amene angakhumudwe ngati zidziwitso zonse za iwo eni zikafalitsidwa. Kukambitsirana kumeneku kumatithandiza kumanga maubwenzi ndipo kukhoza kukulitsa kumvetsetsana ndi kukhulupirirana wina ndi mnzake.
Tanthauzo lina la miseche limatanthauza kufalitsa mphekesera, makamaka zachinsinsi kapena zachinsinsi. Kodi ndife ofunitsitsa kuti tidziwe zinsinsi zonyansa za munthu wina? Zilibe kanthu kuti ndi zoona kapena ayi. Zinthu ngati izi siziyenera kuyambika ngati zowona, koma pang'onopang'ono zimapatsirana kuchokera kwa abwenzi apamtima kupita kwa anzawo apamtima, omwe nawonso amazipereka kwa anzawo apamtima, kotero kuti pamapeto pake zotsatira zake zimakhala. wopotozedwa, koma onse akhulupirira. Monga mwambi umati: “Munthu amakonda kukhulupirira zimene akunong’onezedwa kuseri kwa dzanja”. Miseche yamtunduwu imatha kuvulaza munthu. Miseche yoipa imazindikirika mosavuta ndi mfundo yakuti zokambiranazo zimasiya nthawi yomweyo nkhaniyo ikalowa m'chipindamo. Ngati simungayerekeze kunena mwachindunji kwa munthu, ndiye kuti si koyenera kubwereza.
Miseche yonyansa kapena yanjiru imalinganizidwira kuwononga mbiri ya munthu. Izi zimapitirira kuposa kungopereka zinazake zomwe wamva. Izi ndi za mabodza opangidwa kuti abweretse ululu ndi chisoni chachikulu. Ndiosavuta kufalitsa pa intaneti. Tsoka ilo, anthu amakhulupirira kusindikiza kuposa zomwe zimanong'onezedwa m'makutu mwawo.
Miseche yamtunduwu imaoneka ngati yopanda umunthu mpaka munthu atakhala chandamale cha chidani choterocho. Ophunzira oipa amagwiritsa ntchito njira imeneyi kwa ophunzira ena amene sakonda. Kupezerera anzawo pa Intaneti kumapangitsa achinyamata ambiri kudzipha [akudzipha]. Ku America, izi zimatchedwanso kuzunza anzawo. N’zosadabwitsa kuti Baibulo limati: “Munthu wonyenga ayambitsa ndewu, ndipo wolalata amagawa mabwenzi.” ( Miyambo 1 Kor.6,28). Iye ananenanso kuti: “Mawu a wosinjirira ali ngati nkhani zachabechabe, ndipo amamezedwa mosavuta.” ( Miyambo 1 Kor.8,8).
Tiyenera kuzindikira bwino izi: miseche ili ngati nthenga yaing’ono imene imatengedwa ndi mphepo kuchokera kumalo ena kupita kwina. Tengani nthenga khumi ndikuziwombera mumlengalenga. Kenako yesani kugwiranso nthenga zonse. Imeneyo ingakhale ntchito yosatheka. N’chimodzimodzinso ndi miseche. Mukangoyambitsa nkhani yamiseche, simungaibwezerenso chifukwa imawulutsidwa kuchokera kumalo ena kupita kwina.
Titamva izi kwa munthu wina ndipo tsopano tikuzipereka kwa inu, tiyeni titchule zomwe zinanenedwa kuti miseche kuti tiuze munthu amene akufuna kufalitsa miseche yoipa ponena za inu - ndipo motero kuletsa mphekesera kukhala yonyansa .
ndi Barbara Dahlgren
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