Wovuta mwana

Zaka zambiri zapitazo ndidaphunzira zama psychology a ana ngati gawo la dipuloma yanga ya unamwino. Kafukufuku wina adawonetsa ana osagwira bwino ntchito omwe ali ndimavuto osiyanasiyana amomwe angawathandizire. Panthawiyo, amadziwika kuti "ana ovuta". Masiku ano mawuwa salandiridwanso mdziko la aphunzitsi ndi akatswiri amisala.

M’pemphero kaŵirikaŵiri ndimapenda zolakwa ndi malingaliro anga olakwa ndipo ndimawona kukhala kofunika kupepesa kwa Mlengi wanga. Posachedwapa, pamene ndinakhumudwa ndi ine ndekha m'pemphero, ndinaitana kwa Atate wanga wa Kumwamba, "Ndine mwana wovuta kwambiri!" Ndimadziona ngati munthu amene nthawi zonse amapunthwa m'maganizo ndikugwa. Kodi nanenso Mulungu amandiona choncho? “Pakuti Yehova Mulungu wako ali nawe, Mpulumutsi wamphamvu. Iye adzakondwera nanu ndi kukukomerani mtima, adzakukhululukirani m’chikondi chake, ndipo adzakondwera nanu mokondwera.” ( Zefaniya 3,17).

Mulungu ndi wokhazikika ndi wosasintha. Akandikwiyira, nditha. Zimenezi n’zimene zimandiyenerera, koma kodi ndi mmene Mulungu amandionera? Wamasalimo anati: “Yamikani Mulungu wakumwamba, pakuti kukoma mtima kwake kudzakhalapo mpaka kalekale.” ( Salimo 136,26). Tiyenera kukhala oyamikira kuti Mulungu, amene khalidwe lake lenileni ndi chikondi, amatikonda mosalekeza. Iye amadana ndi machimo athu. Mu chikondi ndi chisomo chake chopanda malire, Mulungu amatipatsa ife, ana ake “ovuta”, chikhululukiro ndi chiombolo: “Mwa iwo ife tonse tinakhalamo kale m’zilakolako za thupi lathu, ndi kuchita chifuniro cha thupi ndi kulingalira, ndipo tinali ana a mkwiyo. mwachibadwa monga enawo. Koma Mulungu, amene ali wolemera mu chifundo, m’chikondi chake chachikulu chimene anatikonda nacho, anatipatsanso moyo pamodzi ndi Khristu, amene tinali akufa mu uchimo—muli opulumutsidwa ndi chisomo – ndipo anatiukitsa pamodzi ndi ife, ndipo anakhazikitsa m’Mwamba. Kristu Yesu” (Aef 2,4-6 ndi).

Mulungu ali ndi makonzedwe odabwitsa kwa inu: “Pakuti ndidziwa bwino malingiriro amene ndili nawo pa inu, ati Yehova: Maganizo a mtendere, osati a chisoni, kuti ndikupatseni inu tsogolo ndi chiyembekezo” ( Yeremiya 2 .9,11).

Mavuto anu ndi zochitika zomwe mumapezeka zingakhale zovuta, koma osati inu monga munthu.

ndi Irene Wilson