Chilankhulo

545 chilankhulo cha thupiKodi ndinu wolankhulana bwino? Sitilankhulana kokha kudzera mu zomwe timalankhula kapena kulemba, komanso ndi zizindikiro zomwe timapereka mozindikira kapena mosadziwa. Chilankhulo chathu cha thupi chimalumikizana ndi anthu ena ndikutumiza zambiri kumawu osavuta oyankhulidwa. Mwachitsanzo, munthu amene amapita kukafunsidwa ntchito angauze womlemba ntchitoyo kuti akumva bwino kwambiri, koma kumangirira manja awo ndi kugwedezeka pampando kumasonyeza zosiyana. Munthu mmodzi akhoza kusonyeza kuti ali ndi chidwi ndi zomwe wina akunena, koma kusayang'ana kwawo nthawi zonse kumapangitsa kuti masewerawo asokonezeke. N’zochititsa chidwi kuti mtumwi Paulo anafotokoza mmene aliyense wa ife alili chiwalo cha thupi la Khristu: “Inu ndinu thupi la Khristu, ndipo aliyense ndi chiwalo.”1. Korinto 12,27).

Funso likubuka: Kodi ndi chilankhulo chotani chomwe mumalankhulana ngati membala wa thupi la Khristu? Mutha kunena kapena kulemba zinthu zambiri zabwino, zolimbikitsa, komanso zolimbikitsa, koma ndi momwe mumakhalira ndi zomwe zimanena zambiri. Momwe mumakhalira moyo wanu zimalankhula momveka bwino komanso momveka bwino zomwe mumakonda komanso zikhulupiriro zanu. Makhalidwe anu amapereka uthenga woona umene muli nawo kwa amene akuzungulirani.
Monga munthu payekha, dera, kapena mpingo, kodi ndife ofunda, okoma mtima, ndi omvera kwa ena? Kapena kodi ndife odzikonda ndi openga, osazindikira aliyense kunja kwa gulu lathu laling'ono? Makhalidwe athu amalankhula ndikulumikizana ndi dziko lowonera. Mawu athu achikondi, kuvomereza, kuyamikiridwa, ndi kukhala nawo angathe kuyimitsidwa m'njira zawo pamene thupi lathu likukana.

“Pakuti monga thupi liri limodzi, komabe lili ndi ziwalo zambiri, ndi ziwalo zonse za thupilo, ngakhale zambiri, ziri thupi limodzi, chomwechonso Khristu. Pakuti ife tonse tinabatizidwa ndi Mzimu mmodzi kulowa m’thupi limodzi, kaya Myuda kapena Mhelene, kapolo kapena mfulu, ndipo tonse tinamwetsedwa ndi Mzimu umodzi. Pakuti ngakhale thupi siliri chiwalo chimodzi, koma zambiri” (1. Korinto 12,12-14 ndi).
Tikufuna kugwiritsitsa, chilankhulo chathu chiyenera kubweretsa ulemu kwa anthu anzathu. Tikamasonyeza chikondi chachikulu, iwo adzaona kuti ndifedi ophunzira a Khristu chifukwa chakuti iye anatikonda ndi kudzipereka yekha chifukwa cha ife. Yesu anati: “Ndikupatsani inu lamulo latsopano, kuti mukondane wina ndi mnzake. Monga ndakonda inu, inunso mukondane wina ndi mzake. Mwa ichi adzazindikira onse kuti muli akuphunzira anga, ngati mupatsa malo achikondi mwa inu nokha.” ( Yoh3,34-35). Ngakhale kuti chikondi cha Khristu mwa ife chimagawidwa ndi ena pafupifupi m'mbali zonse za moyo, thupi lathu limalimbitsa zomwe timalankhula. Kumeneko ndiko kulankhulana kogwira mtima.

Mawu amatuluka mosavuta mkamwa mwanu ndipo ndi otsika mtengo ngati sakuchirikizidwa ndi zochita zanu ndi malingaliro anu achikondi. Pamene mukulankhulana, kaya kudzera m’mawu, mawu olembedwa, kapena mmene mumakhalira, anthu akhoza kuona chikondi cha Yesu mwa inu. Chikondi chimene chimakhululukira, kulandira, kuchiritsa ndi kufikira aliyense. Mulole chimenecho chikhale chiyankhulo cha thupi lanu pazokambirana zanu zonse.

ndi Barry Robinson