Kwaniritsani lamulo

563 kutsatira lamuloliMu Aroma, Paulo analemba kuti: “Chikondi sichichitira mnzako choipa; chotero chikondi ndicho kukwaniritsidwa kwa lamulo” (Aroma 13,10 Baibulo la Zurich). Mwachibadwa timafuna kutembenuza mawu akuti “chikondi chimadzaza lamulo” ndi kunena kuti, “chilamulo chimadzaza chikondi”. Zikafika pa maubwenzi, makamaka, timafuna kudziwa komwe tili. Timafuna kuona bwino kapena kuyeza momwe tiyenera kukhalira ndi kukonda ena. Lamulo limandipatsa muyeso wa momwe ndimakwaniritsira chikondi ndipo ndikosavuta kuyeza kuposa pamene chikondi ndi njira yokwaniritsira lamulo.

Vuto ndi kulingalira uku ndikuti munthu amatha kusunga malamulo popanda chikondi. Koma simungakonde popanda kutsatira lamulo. Lamuloli limatsogolera momwe munthu wokonda azikhalira. Kusiyana kwa lamulo ndi chikondi ndikuti chikondi chimagwira ntchito mkati, munthu amasinthidwa kuchokera mkati. Lamulo, komano, limangokhudza zakunja, machitidwe akunja.

Izi ndichifukwa choti chikondi ndi malamulo ali ndi mfundo zosiyana kwambiri. Munthu amene amatsogoleredwa ndi chikondi safunika kulangizidwa za momwe angakhalire achikondi, koma munthu amene amatsogozedwa ndi lamulo ndiye. Tikuopa kuti popanda malangizo olimba, monga lamulo, lomwe limatikakamiza kuti tizichita zinthu moyenera, sitingathe kuchita izi. Koma chikondi chenicheni sichokhazikika, chifukwa sichingakakamize kapena kukakamizidwa. Amaperekedwa mwaulere komanso kwaulere, apo ayi si chikondi. Kungakhale kuvomereza kapena kuzindikira mokoma mtima, koma osati chikondi, chifukwa chikondi sichikhala ndi malire. Kulandila ndikuzindikira kumakhala kokhazikika ndipo nthawi zambiri amalakwitsa chifukwa cha chikondi.

Ichi ndichifukwa chake chomwe timatcha "chikondi" chimakhala chosavuta kwambiri pamene anthu omwe timawakonda amalephera zomwe timayembekezera komanso zofuna zathu. Tsoka ilo, mtundu uwu wachikondi ndikungodziwa komwe timapereka kapena kubisira kutengera machitidwe athu. Ambiri a ife tachitiridwa motere ndi anansi athu, makolo athu, aphunzitsi ndi oyang'anira, ndipo nthawi zambiri, timasowa malingaliro, timachitira ana athu komanso anthu anzathu chimodzimodzi.

Mwina ndichifukwa chake timakhala osasangalala ndi lingaliro loti chikhulupiriro cha Khristu mwa ife chalowa m'malo mwa lamulo. Tikufuna kuyeza ena ndi china chake. Koma tapulumutsidwa ndi chisomo kudzera mchikhulupiliro ndipo sitifunikanso muyeso. Ngati Mulungu amatikonda ngakhale tidachimwa, kodi tinganyalanyaze bwanji anzathu ndikuwakana ngati satichitira zomwe tikufuna?

Mtumwi Paulo akulongosola zimenezi kwa Aefeso motere: “Ndi chisomo choyera kuti munapulumutsidwa; Palibe chimene mungachite kwa inu nokha koma kudalira zimene Mulungu wakupatsani. Simunayenere kuchita kalikonse; pakuti Mulungu safuna kuti munthu adzionetsere yekha pa zimene wachita pamaso pake” ( Aefeso 2, 8-9 GN).

Nkhani yabwino ndiyakuti ndi chisomo chokha chomwe mudapulumutsidwa kudzera mchikhulupiliro. Muthokoze kwambiri chifukwa cha izi, chifukwa palibe wina aliyense amene adakwaniritsa chipulumutso kupatula Yesu. Tithokoze Mulungu chifukwa cha chikondi chake chopanda malire chomwe akukuwombolani nacho ndikusandulizani kukhala Khristu!

ndi Joseph Tkach