Kukhala dalitso kwa ena

574 kukhala dalitso kwa enaBaibulo limafotokoza momveka bwino za dalitsolo m'malo oposa 400. Kuphatikiza apo, pali zina zambiri zomwe sizili mwa iye. Nzosadabwitsa kuti Akhristu amakonda kugwiritsa ntchito mawuwa paulendo wawo ndi Mulungu. M'mapemphero athu, timapempha Mulungu kuti adalitse ana athu, zidzukulu, okwatirana, makolo, abale, abwenzi, ogwira nawo ntchito, ndi anthu ena ambiri. Tikulemba «Mulungu akudalitseni» pamakadi athu amoni ndikugwiritsa ntchito mawu ngati «Habakuku ali ndi tsiku lodala». Palibe liwu labwinoko lofotokozera zaubwino wa Mulungu kwa ife, ndipo mwachiyembekezo timamuthokoza tsiku lililonse chifukwa chamadalitso ake. Ndikuganiza kuti ndikofunikira kukhala dalitso kwa ena.

Pamene Mulungu anapempha Abulahamu kuti acoke m’dziko lakwawo, iye anamuuza zimene anafuna kucita: “Ndidzakusandutsa anthu ambili, ndipo ndidzakudalitsa iwe, ndi kukupangira dzina lalikulu, ndipo udzakhala dalitso.” ( Yoh.1. Mose 12,1-2). Baibulo la New Life limati: “Ndikufuna kukupangani kukhala dalitso kwa ena”. Lembali limandikhudza kwambiri ndipo nthawi zambiri ndimadzifunsa kuti: "Kodi ndine dalitso kwa ena?"

Tikudziwa kuti kupatsa kumabweretsa madalitso ochuluka kuposa kulandira (Machitidwe 20,35). Timadziwanso kuuza ena madalitso athu. Ndimakhulupirira kuti pakakhala dalitso kwa ena, palinso zambiri. Madalitso amathandizira kwambiri ku chisangalalo ndi moyo wabwino kapena ndi mphatso yochokera kumwamba. Kodi anthu amamva bwino kapena kudalitsidwa pamene tili nawo? Kapena kodi mungakonde kukhala ndi munthu wina amene amakudalirani kwambiri m’moyo?

Monga Akhristu tiyenera kukhala kuunika kwa dziko (Mat 5,14-16). Ntchito yathu si kuthetsa mavuto a dziko lapansi, koma kuwala ngati kuwala mumdima. Kodi mumadziwa kuti kuwala kumayenda mwachangu kuposa mawu? Kodi kupezeka kwathu kumaunikira dziko la anthu amene timakumana nawo? Kodi zimenezi zikutanthauza kuti ndife dalitso kwa ena?

Kukhala mdalitso kwa ena sikudalira kuti chilichonse chiziyenda bwino pamoyo wathu. Pamene Paulo ndi Sila anali m’ndende, anasankha kusatemberera mkhalidwe wawo. Iwo anapitiriza kutamanda Mulungu. Chitsanzo chake chinali dalitso kwa akaidi ena ndi oyang’anira ndende (Mac6,25-31). Nthaŵi zina zochita zathu m’nthaŵi zovuta zingakhale zopindulitsa kwa ena ndipo sitingadziŵe nkomwe. Pamene tidzipereka tokha kwa Mulungu, akhoza kuchita zodabwitsa kudzera mwa ife popanda ife kuzindikira.

Ndani angadziwe kuti ndi anthu angati omwe angakumane nawo? Zimanenedwa kuti munthu m'modzi atha kukhudza anthu 10.000 m'moyo wawo. Kodi sizingakhale zabwino ngati tingakhale dalitso kwa aliyense wa anthuwa, ngakhale atakhala ochepa bwanji? Ndizotheka. Tiyenera kungopempha kuti: "Ambuye, chonde ndipangeni ine mdalitso wa ena!"

Lingaliro lomaliza. Dziko likadakhala malo abwinoko ngati tikadatsata ulamuliro wa a John Wesley:

«Chitani zabwino zonse momwe mungathere
ndi zonse zomwe mungathe,
m'njira iliyonse yotheka
nthawi iliyonse komanso kulikonse komwe zingatheke kwa inu
kwa anthu onse ndi
bola momwe angathere. "
(John Wesley)

ndi Barbara Dahlgren